• “If it’s not your story to tell, don’t tell it.
• As women we are conditioned to believe that if they get theirs, there wont be enough for me. (this is what is taught to oppressed people.
• Men don’t think like that, if they get theirs they don’t care who else got what.

Why do women Betray each other:

1. Self hatred. (I see in you what I refuse to see in me)
2. We don’t honor our relationship.
3. We seek external validation.
4. We don’t honor ourselves.
5. We mimic what we’ve seen.
6. We hold non realistic demands.

• Truly successful, powerful people want other people to be empowered and successful because they want you to feel the light they are feeling.
• Best way to achieve is to help someone else get it first, it takes nothing away from you.
• Self Hatred- I see in you what I refuse to see in myself.
• Betrayal is a drive by shooting, because it just knocks you off your feet.

Why women gossip:

1. To get power
2. It’s an acceptable practice among women.
3. We don’t recognize the power of the spoken word.
4. It diverts attention from our own self.

• Gossip is when you have malice of intent or mindless third party conversations to someone about someone about something you haven’t said to that someone.
• If you don’t want anybody to know, then don’t tell nobody.
• When you gossip you hex yourself.
• Anybody that will bring gossip to you will also take it back. So stay away from gossip.
• When you gossip it is self hearing because when you do it, it comes back to you. Everything starts with the word. The word is demonstrating a condition of the mind. If its in your mind and comes out of your mouth it will be created.
• Men gossip but it’s not malicious. They just want to talk and forget it.
• Men think in headlines, women think in fine print.
• If you are doing your own life work, you don’t have  time to worry about anyone else.

Five Reasons Women Lie:

1. Fear of losing love and respect.
2. Fear of hurting, upsetting or disappointing.
3. To cover up issues of self-worth.
4. When we feel threatened.
5. To be polite.

• An insecure man will lie about who he is to make himself look better, an insecure woman will lie to make herself look better then you.

• Comparison is an act of violence of self.
• “The privilege of a lifetime is being who you are.” - Joseph Campbell Believe your worthy.
• People come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
• Begin within, if it shows up in your life, it’s coming to tell you something about you that you’re acting like you don’t know. Something about yourself, or yourself with God.
• If you continue to live in the past you will miss the present and won’t have a future.
• Trust yourself enough to know who you can trust.
• If you are doing your own life work, you don’t have time to worry about anyone else.
• Life is a class, some teachers you like, some teachers you don’t like.
• Anything that follows I am, will come looking for you.
• Everything you have done to me you have already done to you.
• Not being a victim, just being a good student.
• Don’t make permanent decisions off of temporary feelings.